Confessions

My confession is that I think FH's family are the worst people in the world and if I never see any of them again I would be thrilled.

Yes, thank you. Everything is fine now. All I can say is that I love him with all of my heart and sex is secondary to that. I would rather live without sex than live without him. I just have to get used to adding to my calendar! LOL

I've read your post on this...and I agree...they are the worst people in the world!! But think about it this way...if it wasn't for them you would not have your FI. So they did do something right!

Bachatabride you are absolutely right. (although I like to believe he was left on their door step)

Here's to dreaming!!!

My confession is that I have come to detest my MIL! My FI has cancer and I have given up almost everything to be with him and take care of him...but she is still awful to me! The sad part is the whole family lets her behave like this! I however secretly cannot stand her! Also, we are just trying to get to the wedding date...and all she is doing is complaining about all the details and preaching about etiquette! I mean she should be happy we are getting there! Damn woman!!

 

this is awful, but so funny this icon!

My confession: I have a teenage-like obsession with the Twilight series by Stephenie Meyer. I can't explain why, but these books just completely sucked me in and now I can't let go! I thought these obsession feelings were supposed to go away once we "grew up"

My confession (or one of them!) is that my MIL drives me nuts! I honestly think that she is certifiable - but FI is a mama's boy, so I absolutely cannot let on. But whenever we go visit (thankfully she lives in the burbs!) she literally sits on my last nerve and gnaws at it until we leave! She doesnt' mean to - she's super sweet. She's just also kind of crazy, you know? lol I do love her, I do...but wow. lol

I have a few:

1) I am embarassed by my dad's drinking and his behaviour. I always have been, but lately it's gotten bad or more noticeable again. FI and I were invited to his ex's house for a nice dinner (we call her my fake mom - she's wonderful and he still loves her) and he got really embarassing - saying really inappropriate things.

 

2) Despite trying to give FI's grandmother the benefit of the doubt, I now think she's a mean old bat.

I had a family bridal shower planned for last Saturday and she was supposed to drive down with 2 other people. A 3rd was meant to come along too and when the other two and grandmother found out about the 3rd woman, they decided they didn't want to go (spend 2 hrs in the car with this 3rd woman) so they decided not to come in the morning of the shower. So it was cancelled. The 3rd girl is deaf. How petty is that? Also, she's done other weird mean things. She was going t come to our wedding and then cancelled after FMIL and FFIL had paid for her room. They lost their deposit because of her. Etc.

 

3) I think my FSIL is very selfish and crazy overprotective about her kid. She uses her kid as an excuse to not do most things. Including going to our wedding.

 

4) A biggy:

Deep down I am angry with myself that I left the PhD program and Toronto after 5 years in a very unstable relationship with my ex fiance. And I am very jealous and hurt that he was seemingly unaffected and finished his PhD.

I confess to be really nosey... and am DYING to know why Dbld78 (who has a shit load of points) was 'banned?'

 

Confession #2. I confess to being really hacked of with the majority of my siblings, who are not going to make it to our wedding. I get that $$$ is tight but remember back when, when I didn't have a pot to piss in and yet made it to every one of their weddings... (internationally) That certain members holiday twice a year in Milan - but can't make it to their little sister's wedding?!

I confess to feelling that they all could give a shit...