What to call a girl that's too old to be a flower girl?

Ladies,

My little cousin who is 9 yrs old really wanted to be a part of my wedding. I am so excited to have her help out but I think she may be too old to be a flower girl so I was going to have her help with passing out parasols and programs during the ceremony. I want to include her name in the program as well so I would like to give her a title but I don't know what to call her.

She is too old to be a flower girl and too young for a Jr. Bridesmaids. Any suggestions?

Usher?? But that doesn't sound very much like a cute little 9 yr old girl!! Fairy Princess maybe!! Or bride's helper! Geesh...I don't know!! I'm terrible at this sort of thing!! Maybe someone else will be of better help!!

i would just say a jr. bridesmaid

I was about that age in my sisters wedding, and my official title was "Junior Bridesmaid". I had a similar more age appropriate dress that matched the other bridesmaids. It's definitely an option.

I think JR. Bridesmaid is an option as is Bridal Attendant. Either way, she'll be really excited to be included, especially if she gets a special dress.

usherette? What about just bridal assistant?

I was thinking Jr. Bridesmaid but I like brides helper too!

I would say jr. bridesmaid, or just ask her what she would want to be called. She might appreciate being able to choose her very important title!

I'd go with the jr BM too ...

i'd go with jr bridesmaid...