Lets hope bad things happen in threes!

Oh Sarah! That's incredibly scary. I am so thankful Shelby and her husband are ok. I love your positive outlook. This could bring your family closer together and it certainly might be the reality check that Shelby needed to understand that her family loves her and there is no need to run from them to a different relationship. Also, I think it will allow you all to become closer with her husband.

My healing thoughts go out to them both- I was in a very bad car accident as well and I still have troubles with memory loss due to my head injuries. The most important thing is that your sister is strong and well!

Yes, Zach her husband was absolutely unbeliveable during everything.... I know he was probably in shock but still grabbed shelbys phone and called the immediate family. All of this did get me to know him much better and made me also realize that they are sooooo very much in love. He would do anything and everything for her and treats her like a princess. Right when we were able to see her the first time he bursted into tears and held on to her and wouldnt let go. I guess in the middle of all this happening while the car was spinning she said she knew at that point she lost control and saw the cliff and didnt think she would wake up so she grabbed Zach, told him she loved him and then was knocked out. So this was all a super emotional rollercoaster for everyone, especially them. I hope my sister knows that we do support her and understands that we are close and it was a mistake about not inviting us to her wedding.

OMG, that is awful!!! I am so happy for you and your family that both of them are ok!!

I am SOOOO sorry that all of this happened. I am so very glad they are both OK. Since she got married before the accident will his insurance cover the hospital expenses? I hope so you guys don't need a bunch more stress! I will keep your entire family in my prayers and remember how lucky you are to have such wonderful people around you.

My goodness...glad she is ok. That sounds like a near disasterous accident. You really are going to need one heck of a vacation here really soon with all of the drama going on. I hope you are keeping sane....or at least drinking a lot of wine! I really hope everything starts calming down, and I'm glad to hear they are safe and recovering.

Wow Sarah...I just saw this thread. Im so sorry to hear about your sister. I hope she is doing better and feeling okay...that is so horriable and so scary. My thoughts are with her & your family.

God you've had a shit couple of weeks!!

Apparently things happen for a reason, and the fact they are both "reasonable" ok goes to show that maybe this was a good thing to happen because look what its done to your family - you're back together. And most importantly you don't think her hubby is an arsehole anymore!

Sometimes it takes the unexpected to see whats obvious to everyone that isn't immediately involved.

From now everything is going to be fab!! its your new mantra lol

OMG! Sarah this is nuts!!! I'm SO glad to hear that your sis and her Dh are going to be ok! Your poor family has been through a lot lately.

Hugs to you!!!

So sorry to hear about your sister...wishing her a speedy recovery!

OMG Sarah! I'm so sorry, but thank goodness your sister and her husband are okay. You and your family are in my thoughts.... sending a big hug your way