UGHHH Venting AGAIN!

Hmmmmm well where do I begin.....

 

Im sitting down eating dinner and my FI says "I heard from Cheryl (a client of his at work) Shelby (my sister) got married on monday". So of course I start laughing, theres no way she got married...... shes 18, dating a guy who lives in a different state then her, PLUS I didnt know..

 

So he said that he heard that from his clients daughter because she ran into my sister at the mall. So I text my dad and said I heard that Shelby got married on monday.... His reply "Call Shelby"..... Thats never good. So call shelby, were talking and she never says anything so Finally I bring it up and she says "oh yeah I was gonna call you and tell you" WTF CALL AND TELL ME!!!!!

 

Well come to find out everyone knew she was married except for me and my other sister Jenny. AND no one told us not even my sister.

 

My mom, dad, and sister shelby live in Colorado and I guess Shelby drove to phoenix thursday, got married at the courthouse on monday. I asked her who was all there (considering I live 5 min away to the courthouse she went to) she said zach's family (her now husbands family) and her two friends. ARE YOU SERIOUS?

 

She is my bridesmaid and I found out from my FI's clients daughter that my sister got married when everyone in the family new about but me and my other sister!!!

 

uhgggg OK sorry I feel better!

Eh? Why wouldn't she tell you guys? Is she pregnant? Was she trying to beat you to the alter?

Do you think she was scared to tell you?

WTF!!!!!!!

 

WHAT?!?!??!?!??!??! did i read that correctly?!?! your 18 yr old sister got married without any of your family there, to some guy who lives in a different state? you are gonna have to explain some more because i am hella confused!!!!

wow! I don't even know what to say. That just seems absolutely absurd. Does she normally do stuff like that (meaning random, out of the ordinary, crazy, etc)?

totally off topic! But is that corn in your dogs mouth? LMAO that is the cutest thing ever

sarah, my major question right now is how did your parents allow this?

It sounds like she is being an immature, selfish 18-year-old, which is all too common. I'm really sorry to hear that you had to find out that way. She's really going to regret not having you there in a couple of years when she realizes how important family is in life. How do your parents feel?

LOL Maura you crack me up, although this isnt so much a laughing matter.... so heres the story.

 

My sister meets this guy a few months ago who is in the army. At the time she was living her in phoenix and just graduated high school. Well this guy is a big time loser, dont think he even finished high school and went to some loser boarding school to whip him into shape. Well my sister, Shelby meets him they fall madly in love and within like 3 weeks are obsessed with one another. He decides hes joining the army and will be transfering to colorado.

 

Well my parents were moving there anyways so my sister moves with my parents waiting for him to get transfered.

 

Well time passes he never gets transfered.... He tells shelby that he has a house waiting to her in Colorado springs and the keys are there and on and on! SO she goes there..... no keys.... no house..... nothing!

 

He lied about everything. Now any NORMAL person would think hmmmmmm thats probably not too normal maybe I should back off from a guy who made me move states and lied about getting transfered to colorado. But no of course it doesnt phase her.

 

So I just find out all of this..... he is getting transfered to Alaska and the only way they can live together is for them to get married to live on base. So thats just what they do. I guess everyone has know for weeks. My dad hasnt spoken or looked my sister in the eyes for over a month, they have gone to therapy and everything to let her know what the hell she is doing with her life and she just doesnt get it!!!

 

 

I have no idea why she didnt tell me, Im sure she thought she would get the same reaction my parents gave her. I just seriously cant believe my LITTLE 18 year old sister went up got married down the street and I have NO idea, NONE!

Haha yep... we were sitting on the step taking off the husk and she grabbed one and took off. When we finally caught her she wouldn't drop it. She is a bit of a snot and doens't like to play fetch - she just wants people to chase her. Normally when you pick her up like that though she will drop whatever she is holding. Well she would NOT give up the corn... we had to bribe her with treats to let it go. Hehe : )