Welcome to the Best Destination Wedding Forum forums.

You are currently viewing our boards as a guest which gives you limited access to view most discussions and access our other features. By joining our free community you will have access to post topics, communicate privately with other members (PM), respond to polls, upload content, and access many other special features such as the chat area, picture galleries, and some private forums. Registration is fast, simple and absolutely free so please, join our community today!

If you have any problems with the registration process or your account login, please contact us.

Go Back   Best Destination Wedding Forum > BDW General > Destination Wedding Vendors

Destination Wedding Vendors Vendors: please PM the host before posting in any advertisements.

Reply
 
LinkBack Thread Tools Display Modes
Old 09-07-2008, 07:35 PM   #1
Noob
 
dbutte55's Avatar
 
Join Date: Aug 2008
Location: denver
Wedding Date: June 22, 2008
Wedding Location: Presidente Intercontinental Cozumel
Posts: 8
Points: 410.05
Bank: 0.00
Total Points: 410.05
Donate
karma: 0
dbutte55 is on a distinguished road
Angry Hotel Wedding Coordinator Problems!

Hi there,

So, we found the perfect hotel for us to have our wedding! The Cozumel Presidente Intercontinental....however, bmy experience with the onsite planner has been really disappointing. Basically, I have had to micro-manager her every step of the way so far. And, we haven't event signed the contract yet. I'm contemplating calling the manager and insisting that they assign me a new coordinator, although I'm pretty sure she's the one.

What do I do? I really like the site...I'm just worried about having to deal with an incompetent wedding coordinater for the next year and then having something go wrong on wedding day.

Help please!
DB
dbutte55 is offline   Reply With Quote
Sponsored Links
Old 09-07-2008, 11:03 PM   #2
Banned
 
Join Date: Aug 2008
Age: 21
Location: Toronto,ON
Wedding Date: 2010
Wedding Location: Dreams Los Cabos, Mexico
Posts: 728
Points: 2,920.82
Bank: 5,520.40
Total Points: 8,441.22
Donate
karma: 0
Michelle is on a distinguished road

Default Re: Hotel Wedding Coordinator Problems!

hey! that sounds really stressful maybe you should see if there are some wedding coordinators that are not from the resort and could help you better!...im sure there are some girls on here that would have some recommendations :) did you try searching on here for anything about an outside WC?
Michelle is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 09-08-2008, 08:42 AM   #3
Yari*licious*
 
Yari's Avatar
 
Join Date: Aug 2007
Age: 34
Location: California
Wedding Date: October 10, 2008
Wedding Location: Las Caletas, Puerto Vallarta
Posts: 8,231
Points: 5,596.33
Bank: 461,723.08
Total Points: 467,319.41
Donate
karma: 10
Yari is on a distinguished road



Default Re: Hotel Wedding Coordinator Problems!

I would call the general manager of the hotel and ask if you could change WC's.
__________________
Yari is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 10-10-2008, 06:59 AM   #4
Junior Member
 
pribrzl's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jun 2008
Location: CT
Wedding Date: May 23rd, 2009
Wedding Location: Blue Bay Grand Esmeralda, Riviera Maya
Posts: 32
Points: 793.83
Bank: 539.36
Total Points: 1,333.19
Donate
karma: 0
pribrzl is on a distinguished road
Default Re: Hotel Wedding Coordinator Problems!

Hi DB,

I have to say that I know what you are going through! I am dealing with the coordinator at BBGE in Playa del Carmen, and she also doesn't seem to understand the need to get back with answers. I am not sure what kind of issues you are dealing with, but it seems the response time down there is not the same as here. I waited for a band recommendation for almost a month! I had to keep asking for it....I ended up trying to find it myself. I actually just read on the Mx vendor thread about wedding coordinators and may start quoting them. My concern is to bring someone from the outside and make things a bit tense with the hotel one....i'll let you know if I get a good estimate for a wc. Good luck, PO
__________________


pribrzl is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 10-10-2008, 07:36 AM   #5
Senior Member
 
Amarillis's Avatar
 
Join Date: May 2008
Age: 28
Location: Northern Ontario, Canada
Wedding Date: January 28, 2009
Wedding Location: Barcelo Marina Palace, Varadero Cuba
Posts: 900
Points: 2,358.26
Bank: 16,484.81
Total Points: 18,843.07
Donate
karma: 1
Amarillis is on a distinguished road

Default Re: Hotel Wedding Coordinator Problems!

Here is my advice... please don't take it too harshly....

If you are having problems now... why continue to deal with that resort... there are hundreds of gorgeous resorts out there... in every carribean/mexican location.

If you are having issues now... imagine what it will be like in the future.

IMO - the WC at the resort is the key to your entire DW... I think she will make a huge impact on the experience you have and the experience that your guests have.

I am lucky, Sandra at the Barcelo Marina Palace is awesome.
__________________
Engaged: November 8, 2007
Destination Wedding: Barcelo Marina Palace, Varadero Cuba
Departure Date: January 24, 2009
Wedding Date: January 28, 2009


http://www.mywedding.com/chadandamy2009





80 People have booked!


Amarillis is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 10-10-2008, 12:28 PM   #6
 
DanielleNDerek's Avatar
 
Join Date: Nov 2007
Location: Bellmawr, NJ
Wedding Date: Nov 6, 2008
Wedding Location: Paradisus Palma Real, Punta Cana DR
Posts: 5,014
Points: 10,814.42
Bank: 225,251.58
Total Points: 236,066.01
Donate
karma: 7
DanielleNDerek is on a distinguished road



Default Re: Hotel Wedding Coordinator Problems!

I would either hire an outside WC or find another resort. These problems will most likely be there during the whole planning process and do you really want to be stressed out about this the whole time?
__________________



DanielleNDerek is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 10-12-2008, 12:21 PM   #7
Banned
 
Join Date: Aug 2008
Location: Toronto, Canada
Posts: 133
Points: 1,557.95
Bank: 0.00
Total Points: 1,557.95
Donate
karma: 0
LisaMarkPhotography is on a distinguished road
Default Re: Hotel Wedding Coordinator Problems!

The ladies above have given great advice...whether you change locations or you request a different WC, just don't continue to work with this one or you'll be pulling your hair out by the end of your planning. Go with your gut feeling!
LisaMarkPhotography is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 10-13-2008, 11:09 AM   #8
Junior Member
 
Bryan Valiant's Avatar
 
Join Date: Sep 2007
Location: Seattle
Posts: 52
Points: 2,802.29
Bank: 0.00
Total Points: 2,802.29
Donate
karma: 2
Bryan Valiant is on a distinguished road
Default Re: Hotel Wedding Coordinator Problems!

I would would find someone else.... odds are they have another planner or even maybe the planners assistant would be better... from the sound of it they couldn't be any worse. best of luck.

Bryan Valiant
__________________
Bryan Valiant is offline   Reply With Quote
Reply

Thread Tools
Display Modes

Posting Rules


Points Per Thread View: 1.00
Points Per Thread: 15.00
Points Per Reply: 5.00
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are On

Points Per Thread View: 1.00
Points Per Thread: 15.00
Points Per Reply: 5.00


All times are GMT -7. The time now is 03:37 PM.


The opinions expressed within these Wedding Message Boards and Wedding Discussion Boards are the opinions of the individual poster and not necessarily shared by the forum owner. We reserve the right to remove any messages from the wedding discussion boards at any time for any reason.

Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.7.4
Copyright ©2000 - 2008, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.
Content Relevant URLs by vBSEO 3.2.0
Best Destination WeddingAd Management by RedTyger