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08-17-2008, 04:13 PM
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karma: 0 |  Std's
hey everyone
I just thought of something and would like some opinions....
Why would one send out a std if you know you are not sending an invite? Isnt that like saying, we are getting married, but Im not inviting you!?  lol
Just curious!
thanks
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08-17-2008, 04:15 PM
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karma: 1 | Re: Std's
I would only send STD's to people that you are sending a formal invite to, even if you know they are not going to attend (you don't have to send them an invite if they decline)
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08-17-2008, 04:20 PM
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karma: 1 | Re: Std's
I agree with Kerry. You could always send an email engagement/wedding announcement if you wanted to let people know that your engaged. I wouldn't send an STD if you are not planning on inviting them - it'll be confusing to them & they'll be disappointed when they find out that they are not in fact invited.
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08-17-2008, 04:20 PM
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#4 | | Eric*a*licious*
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karma: 2 | Re: Std's
We sent std's only to those people that we were going to invite to the DW. Then we ended up finding out a bunch of them that weren't going to be coming with us, so we didn't send them a formal invite. This helped me out as I was making the invites, including the folder from a 12x12 cardstock sheet, so that was a little less work for me!!
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08-17-2008, 09:16 PM
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karma: 2 | Re: Std's
I agree, you wouldn't send an STD to anyone you are not inviting to the wedding. Some sort of engagement or wedding anouncement would work better.
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