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Old 01-03-2007, 08:48 AM   #11
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...and a silver sixpence in your shoe
Placing a silver sixpence in the bride's left shoe is a symbol of wealth. This is not just to bring the bride financial wealth but also a wealth of happiness and joy throughout her married life.
source: WeddingGuideUK.com - Wedding Traditions
Hmm, for the ceremony I was going to go barefoot and then I'm wearing stapless sandles for dinner. How the H*ll are you suppose to put a "sixpence" in your shoe? Tape it lol
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Old 01-03-2007, 08:49 AM   #12
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wow that narrows it down, thanks for that info.
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Thanks for the info Sherri. I guess I can't do the rosaries then since the borrowed is supposed to be borrowed from a bride and the old is supposed to be something from the bride's family. hmmm...

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I say screw the traditions.. :-) if you want to do the old, new, borrowed, and blue things then do them your own way. We are all having a DW which is already out of tradition, these things were written up a long time ago. I'm trying to incorporate these things to things that "mean" something, which in the end is all that matters right?
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I need to find a happy bride to borrow something from

Tammy maybe you can hold that coin thing in your hand lol lol

I am searching for the american version of this...this version is from the UK.
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Good advice Tammy. I mean after all blue for purity? I'm certainly no virgin! lol.

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Here we go!

Finding Something Old, New, Borrowed, And Blue

You've witnessed countless brides interpret these words in the same old conventional fashion (the handkerchief is old, the dress is new, the earrings are borrowed and the garter is blue). But this is your wedding, and you've never been one to follow the crowd. Take heart. Here are some ideas to make your wedding unique and memorable.

Something Old

If you are pressed for time, you can always throw on a pair of old stockings to take care of this part of the rhyme... but you don't want to do that. You may be lucky enough to wear your mother's wedding gown, but if not, the following suggestions are as apropos as they are old.

A vintage engagement ring or wedding band

The veil your grandmother wore in her wedding

Antique or heirloom earrings or bracelet

A tiny vintage purse

Vintage buttons on your wedding dress

Your favorite lipstick

Your signature perfume

Antique lace tied around your bouquet


Something New

This is where it can get really fun; after all, who could deny you a perfectly sensible excuse to go shopping? Think of the possibilities…
Your wedding gown

A veil that makes the dress

Luxurious lingerie

A brand new lipstick or eyeshadow

Jewelry: a sparkling bracelet, earrings or a classic pearl necklace (if not a gift from your groom, then one to yourself -- you deserve it)

The perfect shoes

Elegant silk gloves

A glittering tiara (what better time to be princess for a day)

A silk or cashmere shawl (for a fall or winter wedding)
Just because it's new doesn't mean you have to purchase it.
A brand new penny for your shoe

Freshly picked garden flowers for your bouquet

Something Borrowed

Your friends and family will be thrilled to help you with this item; however, it may be a bit tricky deciding what to borrow from whom. One of the most traditional choices is also one of the loveliest -- borrowing a gown from your mother or grandmother. If that is not an option, read on.
Mom's pearl necklace

The earrings your grandmother wore at her wedding

The adorable little bag your best friend carried at hers

Your aunt's veil or headpiece

Your sister's wedding shoes

Your parents' (or a friend's) home for the wedding or reception

An elegant wrap from your future mother-in-law

Your grandfather's Bible or book of poetry

Money from your parents or his (for the wedding or honeymoon)

Something Blue

We aren't sure who launched the blue garter craze, but we do know it's still alive in the 21st century. While a lacy blue garter is a viable option, the following are a few fresh alternatives.
Blue flowers in your bouquet, such as hydrangeas

Lingerie with touches of blue

Ice blue toenail polish

A dramatic blue-red lipstick

Tiny blue details, such as flowers, scattered on a long veil

A delicate pale blue barrette

A beautiful blue Austrian crystal
A blues band at your reception

A silk, midnight blue wedding gown (who says it has to be white?)

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this version also skips the coin thing!
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Glenda maybe we need to die our dress blue to make ourselves pure again.. lol...
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I tend to agree with Tammy - I don't plan on following any "rules" of any sort (other than the legal ones!). I want to do what means the most to me, and Paul , of course!
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