Wedding is fast approaching and freaking out

[happyone]

I'm not till July yet I am freaking out and I am not the kind of person to stress out about things like weddings. I am not artsy or crafty and I suddenly feel that my wedding is lacking those special details which I do not have the genetic makeup to create. Then sometimes I just say screw it who really cares. It's in Cabo, people will have a good time. I can't imagine how much I would be stressing if it were this month. You are not alone. Even my FI is having nightmares.

[Lorilou]

I was feeling stressed out about 3 weeks ago. Now, i'm over it. I figure everything is as planned as it can be and I cannot hold everyone's hand to get stuff done. All the big things are done, no one will notice if some of the little things aren't perfect. I am focusing on enjoying the last bit of time of being a "Bride". :)

[michelle08]

Originally Posted by Lizz

I feel like I'm so anxious and stressed, but really haven't been actually doing anything wedding-related. I agree that I am so excited, but can't wait til it's over so I can stop thinking/breathing/living "wedding"!

I feel the same...I feel like I am going in a million circles and can't get anything done or finish any project and I have 3 weeks.... Oh boy....

[hollisandsteph]

I was actually thinking about starting a thread like this. I am stress but mostly just about money. Then I am taking it out on my FI. Actually we are taking it out on each other. We hardly ever bicker or fight and in the last 3-4 weeks it seems one of us is annoyed at the other almost every day. Yesterday was a good day all day...no bickering at all. LOL We were in the process of refinancing our house and had it not worked out I would have had to go back to work after we got back from Jamaica. I have been staying home with our 2 year old sine she was born and I am totally not ready to go back yet. Then add all the wedding stuff and preparing for the trip, and not to mention the panic attack I have every time I think about leaving our daughter. We have older kids too but I am not too worried about them cause they are in 5th and 7th grade and understand what is going on. Riley will be in good hand with our families but it stilll makes me nervous! Now that everything has gone through with the house I have relaxed 100%. We are finishing up all our clothes shopping this weekend and then I think everything will be good to go! I have less than 2 weeks to go before we leave. It went from a year to months to weeks to almost days now. Time flew and I cannot wait to marry my best friend, bickering and all!

[cmmdee]

It's completely normal to feel this way so close to your big day!
Just take it one day at a time and do what you can! :)
YIPEE! Your day is almost here!!!!

[sumrdream]

well, I have a long way to go and I'm already stressing! Just b-r-e-a-t-h-e....and you'll be ok.......good luck!